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Dose One Parent Have More Rightd Then The Other?

5 Comments 13 February 2010

Its My brother~in~law’s weekend 2 see his kidsThe boys are 7~8yrs old he and my sis live in los angeles the kids live in Palmdale,at 6oclock this evening when the boyz were 2 be picked up the mother of the Boyz calls and says “you can take one but not the other because hes punished??? i dont understand this kind of punishment!!both father and son have to be punished theres no court orders but this is how they been doing it Everyother weekend!!

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  1. K.T. says:

    No one parent should not have rights then the other unless ordered by a judge. So I think they should go to court because what has been going on does not seem fair to the father and the boy in trouble.

  2. jynoll says:

    No, one parent does not have more rights than the other unless child abuse is going on. It’s great that these parents have been able to work things out without going to court so far, as this is better for the kids. However, if the father continues to be denied his right to visitation, he may have to take his ex to court and get a parenting plan put into writing and made official through the court. A child should NEVER be punished by keeping them from visitation from either parent!!!!! Judges do not like visitation being withheld, even if abuse is suspected, unless Child Protective Services gets involved. Sincerely, Joy…P.S. Before taking any court action, the father should try to talk to his ex about this situation.

  3. b4iquit says:

    Such a practice must stop immediately.
    It is totally wrong to use access to the father as a punishment, it deprives both the father and the son of valuable time together.
    The son may in time dislike his father because he sees the cost of seeing him as too high a hurdle to get over. If the boys have to maintain a certain level of behavior in order to see their dad, well they may give up on it. What if the mother decreases the levels of infraction that result in the punishment of not being allowed to spend time with their dad and missing out on the visit.
    This entire thing in so wrong that its abuse of the children and should be reported as such. The father should seek a court order to confirm his access rights in any event. To be at another’s whim over when and if you can see you sons is just not acceptable, no matter if the adults get on well now, things may change.
    This is so wrong, so very wrong. Please push for action to be taken to fix this now. If you cant then report it to child welfare. Those poor boys.
    Be safe, be sage

  4. i ? hershey ????? says:

    it’s an interesting question & all but if they are ok with it then why are you in it? this is between your sis & bil concerning their kids. I hate it when outsiders get involved into things they shouldn’t be in.

  5. threewil says:

    Keeping a child from their parent isnt a normal punishment. The dad should talk to her and see if maybe the child could still come, and have the same rules of their punishment applied at his house.


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